Hi all who actually read this. I apologize for the delay. Life has been so busy and I hardly have time to write here. You see, my internet stinks at my apartment, so my only chance of getting on the internet is when I come to campus. And when I'm on campus, I am either in class, studying in the library, or at my internship. That's where I am right now, heh heh.
But life is good. I've been going to concerts on campus lately, partly because I'm in a music class and I need to. However, I have discovered that I really do love going to classical music concerts! For the last several years, I've been going to my mom's concerts on her comp tickets, and I did like the concerts. I just didn't realize how much I really do enjoy it!
One of my new year's resolutions, if you will, was to learn how to enjoy spending time with myself. You see, many of us humans are under the assumption that in order to truly enjoy life is to have lots of friends and an active social life. These are nice, but what happens when you are alone? If you base your happiness on having lots of friends, then chances are, you hate being alone. Who do you have to live with 24/7? You!
I don't have a ton of friends and I don't get invited to many things. This used to bug me immensely, but I decided that I don't have to wait for someone to invite me to do something I don't particularly enjoy. I can have fun on my own, doing something I truly enjoy.
Now don't think I'm abandoning friendship. I love my friends and I do enjoy spending time with them. I just think people need to learn how to have fun on their own and not depend on other people for their happiness. I haven't given up on dating, even though I rarely get asked out. I'm starting to wonder if I should start taking matters into my own hands. But that's another entry for another day.
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